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Connecting the Dots

15 Friday Jan 2010

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, Prayer, The Great Outdoors

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Annie Dillard, Death, Haiti, News Coverage, NPR

Walking a Prayer Labyrinth

I confess to not sitting in front of the television for the latest news in Haiti.

If ostriches bury their heads in sand, count me as their close feathered friend.  I do not wish to watch the Haitian people pick up the scattered and broken pieces of their lives on my television set for the same reasons that I refuse to rubber-neck at the scene of a car wreck.

I risk that others might find me hard and uncaring, but I keep my eyes averted out of respect and compassion for the victims of the tragedy, and those close at hand who are doing their level best to lend a helping hand.  Refusing to rubber-neck at television coverage is my way of  granting the Haitian people privacy and space to grieve, to grapple, to gripe and grope toward solutions that are barreling upon them at warp speed.

I’ve been getting my occasional updates off the radio.  I was sitting in the Subway Sandwich parking lot when I first heard the story on NPR, last Tuesday evening.  The island of Haiti had suffered a major earthquake, the news anchor said.  Seven point O on the Richter scale.

The story did not  grow into front page headlines on Wednesday, at least in my small dot of the world.  I wondered if there were no ‘hard’ news to report.   But by Wednesday afternoon — or was it Thursday? — I heard tell of 50,000 dead.  Later it grew to 100,000.  But those interviewed hedged their bets by saying that no one really knew.

So far, the few dots I can connect are these:  Tuesday afternoon late.  7.0.  Death and destruction.   Aid promised and descending, and in the short-term, disconnected.  Shock all around.  Years to recover.  For the “lucky” ones.

Why is it that we talk of what we do not know, especially when tragedy hits?  Is it a way of making the unreal real or thinking about the unthinkable, a way of expressing grief, of showing concern or merely an exercise in connecting dots?

Until God shows up in the actions of human flesh, women in Haiti are leaning on their faith to deal with the aftermath.  I learned this news from CNN, while waiting for a doctor’s appointment earlier today.  The reporter concluded by saying that these Haitian women were turning their eyes to God for help.

Following their lead, I too will keep my eyes on God…and connect with the “dots.”

Sabbath Rest

27 Sunday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, Life at Home

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Dog Tales, Everyday Life, Lazy Bones, Sand and Snow, Travel

Laziness use to be a guilty pleasure.

Even on cold winter days, I had no problem finding something  inside to do.  Two winters ago I re-finished twenty upstairs wood windows and painted every wall and ceiling surface, including the bedroom pictured above.  I chose a soft turquoise with white bedding to remind me of the beach.

These days, the idea of observing a sabbath rest is slowly gaining more appeal.  Maybe it’s the company I keep; with my husband in the middle of a two-week holiday, each morning I find myself sleeping in later and later.   While I miss the discipline of early risings, I can’t quite bring myself to leave that warm bed on a cold morning, especially when I know there’s a foot of snow lying just outside my window.

It was almost eight o’clock before I stirred this morning.  A subtle moving of my legs was enough to summon two soft brown poodle eyes to pay court by my bedside.

It’s my morning task to tend to the needs of our doggie trinity.  The dogs will not leave the bedroom without me it tow.  Once I’m up — with robe on and feet in slippers  — Max gallops down the stairs while I gingerly tread at a more sedate pace; Maddie and Cosmo are not far from my side.

I let the dogs out and begin gathering up their bowls to make breakfast.  Today’s menu is kibbles with an aperitif of Rocket Roll and Turkey.  Breakfast is served, the starter is devoured and a few token kibbles are eaten.  Then it’s time for a second trip outdoors.

I am surprised that the dogs don’t mind going out in the snow.  In fact, they are staying out longer than usual.  Sometimes it’s for a bit of frolic and other times it’s for other good reasons.  My friend Kelli is the source of the “other good reasons.”  Santa-Kelli sent each of our dogs two bones for Christmas.

Not to tell tales, but Max is enjoying more than his fair share of bones, which forces his sisters into defensive bone maneuvers.  Maddie ‘s strategy — taking her bone outside to bury in the snow — is not working.  I know because I found Max sprawled on top of hard-packed snow ravishing one of Maddie’s icicle bone-pops.

There are so many ways to enjoy a bit of sabbath rest.  While Max enjoyed his turkey to later sprawl on icy snow with stolen bone, my daughter Kara and son-in-law Joe stole away to rest their bones on warm sand in the Turk and Caicos.

Whether its Turk or turkey, sand or snow, or even a warm comfy bed… taking time to be lazy can be feast for the soul.  With a good book or bone it’s paradise.  Even when the turquoise waters and white sandy beaches are walls and bedding… or sky and snow.

Saving the Best for Last

17 Thursday Dec 2009

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Everyday Life, Friends, T.S. Eliot, Travel

Our entire stay has been wonderful.  But yesterday turned out to be the best day of all.

Not because the weather cleared up though we did swap fog for rain and kept the gray skies.

Nor was yesterday better because my meals were more special than others  we’ve enjoyed; good food abounds in Brazosport.

Yesterday was the best simply because I got to visit with friends.  I walked with one, sat with another over tea and visited with the remaining two over lunch.  The conversations were as different as the women involved, and I couldn’t even begin to describe them or their importance to my everyday life.  So I won’t.  Let’s just say that these girlfriends of mine are as real as they come.

That they should rearrange their days to fit in that rare visit from an old friend made me feel special and loved.  And in a nutshell, that is how the best of everyday life should be.

Fair weather comes and goes, the energy from meals is soon consumed but in the space of a few hours, the visits from with these four dear friends will last me for a good long while.

And though I wish I had more time to visit, with old friends and new, time has run out.  It’s time to fly home.

“.. go, go, go said the bird: human kind Cannot bear very much reality.”

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