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Summer Lull Salads

22 Monday Sep 2014

Posted by Janell in In the Garden, In the Kitchen, Life at Home

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Aging, Catlina Dressing, Corn Okra Tomato Salad, Everyday Life, Oklahoma Gardening, Taco Salad

IMG_2787AT HOME, CURRENTLY READING:  ALL THE LIGHT WE CANNOT SEE, BY ANTHONY DOERR

This evening, at some odd but precise moment in time, while many of us go about our regular weekday programing, summer will end with a quick tick-tock of the seasonal clock, and with just the sort of make-believe magic that comes from clicking together two ruby slippers, autumn will arrive to color our world.

IMG_2798Fall will inherit fine leftovers to build upon, with the ornamental gardens already lovely and the tomato plants still going strong.  Gardens aside and elsewhere in my life,  summer leaves behind the reality of a main bathroom that finished prettier than envisioned along with lush memories of a family vacation far better than good planning alone can make.

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While I could go on about the good happenings that have transpired since spring, with a brief mention of the few sad events that still rob me of sleep, suffice it to say that for reasons unknown, the season feels a little unfinished to me.  Alll day long I’ve wrestled with questions: Did I use my time wisely this summer… or would I make different choices knowing what I now know?  Did I make enough hay while the sun was shining?

Of no matter and with no second chances for do-overs, the final minutes of summer count down, leaving me to wonder which freshly minted summer memory will ultimately rise to the top to define my summer.  What will easily come to mind about this summer…oh, say… six short years from now… when I’m a Beatle-ish sixty-four?

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I pose this question at the risk of knowing how odd this summer has been in ways that have little to do with our milder-than-normal weather.  It’s been so unlike the eight summers that have preceded it.  Each of those were held together — or shall I say defined and refined — by some overarching theme or activity, making them easy to classify, catalog and recall.

Eight years ago, during the Summer of 2006, I had just moved back from Texas, so the big undertaking was getting us settled into our new home.  Seven years ago, it was the restoration of our historic home’s long-ignored garage.  Six years ago, the landscaping of my smallish backyard.  Five years ago, and well-documented in this blog, was one I refer to as “The Summer of Daddy.”  Four years ago I helped remodel and refresh my sister’s house.  Then, relocating twenty blocks north, I spent the summer three years ago digging gargantuan garden beds surrounding our fifties ranch house.  Two years ago I painted the exterior of our house.  And this year… this summer, I’ve no major project to show and tell about.

With a lull in big summer undertakings, I’ve whiled days away a little here and a little there.  When I wasn’t managing bathroom contractors… or living the good life in Rome and Greece… or entertaining grandchildren or reading books or watching films or performing the daily tasks of everyday life, I devoted myself to the garden. Unless I cheat and count the new fountain garden that my husband helped me add, I made no major changes, but instead spent hours and hours  tweaking this and fine-tuning that.  First on one activity, that I’ll call weeding.  Then picking up another, say, edging, and working awhile… before moving onto another, like triming or deadheading.  I’d go out for a few minutes in early morning, telling myself I’ll limit myself to completing one small task.  And before I knew it, it was time for lunch.  Some days, I came inside well after lunch.

IMG_2813 At three years of age, I liken my garden to a growing toddler.  Though it already hints at the beauty it may one day become, like a young child, it still requires much discipline and attention to keep healthy and in good form.  So I give it my time, and in return, my garden teaches me about life.  Lessons on beauty and a little something about what I can control and what I cannot.

Maybe, someday, I’ll write of lessons taken away from the garden.  But these will keep, where recipes for this summer’s two favorite salads will not.  Different than last year, I refuse to share another salad recipe during the dregs of winter.  And much like the garden from which some of the ingredients hailed, these two salads dominated many, many of our summer’s meals.  My husband might say “too many.”

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Corn, Okra and Tomato Side Salad

Combine equal portions of roasted corn (cut fresh from the cob), fried okra (cut thin and fried without batter or breading) and fresh tomato in a bowl.  Add a dash (or splash) of bsalmic vinegar.  Combine and serve.  To serve 2, combine 1/3 cup of each vegetable with one Tbsp of vinegar.  Can be made an hour or so in advance, adding the vinegar right before serving.

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Taco Salad and Catalina Dressing

Makes Two Generous-Sized Portions

Combine following in a bowl with a light toss.

1/2 can of black beans, rinsed and well-drained.  (Freeze other half)
1/2 cup of fried ground beef, crumbled
1/2 cup of roasted corn
1/2 cup of cherry tomatoes
1/2 cup of finely chopped romaine lettuce
1/4 cup finely chopped bell pepper
1/4 cup of chopped green onion
1 cup of regular-sized Fritos
1/4 cup of grated cheddar cheese (or crumbled feta, as appears in the photo)
!/4 cup (more or less) of homemade Catalina Dressing (recipe follows)

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Catalina Dressing

Add following ingredients (exdept oil) to a bowl and pulse with immersion blender until well-blended.  Add oil and blend again until emulsified.

1/4 cup of ketchup (i use Del Monte’s)
1 Tbsp. granulated sugar
1/4 cup red wine vinegar
1/4 cup finely minced onion
1/2 tsp. paprika
1/4 tsp. Worcestershire sauce
1/8 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper
3/8 cup of Canola Oil

Remodel Redux

04 Wednesday Jun 2014

Posted by Janell in Home Restoration, Life at Home

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bath remodel, Childhood Memories, Everyday Life, Home Restoration, Remodeling

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IMG_1909Memories of the first time I walked through my home have washed over me this week…. in small part due to the nearness of my third anniversary of moving here…in larger part, due to the onset of our main bath remodel a week ago.

So what have I been thinking?  Bittersweet thoughts, mostly.  About how starting this bathroom project means that I’ve finally reached the bottom of a very, very long to-do list.  About how happy and fulfilling these last three years in my life have been… whilst fixing and “uppering” this and that.  Even when not actually working on such tasks, I was planning and imagining all the lovely and not-so-lovely details of some succeeding project…one or two rungs down the list.

All this as a way of confessing that I’ve never been happier living anywhere, anytime… and I write this with eyes wide open, at the risk of trivializing all that’s good that has come before.  Who can say where and how such deep feelings are born?  Only that they are, and that sometimes, love and affection for some special person or place or thing… followed almost immediately by a sense of responsibility and commitment towards it…. rises up within us… almost at first sight… often without realizing it till later.

The immense joy felt from the birth of children and grandchildren….is somewhat akin to the joy I’ve felt while remodeling and living in this sixty-three year old house and its surrounding gardens.  It’s as if the love and appending commitment I bear for this home… is weighty enough to live and breathe on its own… very much like children and grandchildren… separate and apart from me.

Surely, the power of such feelings cannot help but redefine and reshape and remodel me… and what I once believed true about myself and my preferences.  How easy tastes can change with times and circumstances.  Up until it happened, I never “in a million gazillion years” imagined myself living in a fifties California Ranch.  Until, that is, my need for a one-story arose.   Until I noticed that lingering for-sale sign, in front of what seemed a well-cared-for buff-colored limestone house situated on a corner.  Until attending its Open House.  Until stepping on the worn marble-tiled floor of the small entry, and hearing for the very first-time, the snappy plop of a sixty-year old spring-loaded screen door closing behind me.  I always wanted to live in a house on a corner, I remember thinking.

“All it needs is a lot of love,” I later told my husband, while walking out the door towards our car.  As I rattled off the many remodeling possibilities on the way home, my husband countered with talk of “paybacks” and “exit strategies” and “economics.” While he spoke of being sensible… of making wise choices… of the do-WE-really-want-to-buy a house only to REDO every square inch of it…. I thought of color schemes… and weighed whether to go retro in style… or bring the place into the twenty-first century, with a small nod to its glorious fifties past.

IMG_1911Economics wasn’t part of the equation… my husband eventually understood.  Somewhere between that sweet sense of nostalgia felt while standing in the small entry… and smelling the not-so-sweet scent of leaking gas from the living room fireplace… I knew I wanted to live here.   It didn’t matter that the house had seen better days…. that much of its fifties fabulousness had been stripped away by previous and (somewhat recent) kitchen and main bath remodels.

Previous owners surely must have imagined their remodel as a step in the right direction…. just as I have with mine.  But what joy I take…. in that no one ever quite got around to undertaking a wholesale remodel of our utility bath.  Would you believe it still has all of its original tile work, including a cute cubby of a built-in shower that reminds me of the very one I used as a child.

Oh, the memories… they do wash over me.

Déjà vu, Déjà Voodoo

16 Friday May 2014

Posted by Janell in In the Garden, In the Kitchen, Life at Home

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Drunken Beef Tacos, Everyday Life, In the Kitchen, Oklahoma Gardening

IMG_1839The weather, the weather, what can one make of it?

Two weeks ago it was central heat, turtlenecks and sweaters.   Last week…., central air conditioning, shorts and flip-flops.  And today, today, like some sort of déjà voodoo, I find myself living in a text-book springtime sort of day, seventies and sunshine, like Alice in Wonderland herself.  Or maybe her companion, the Mad Hatter.

How often I’ve wished I could “read” the bursts of spring-time weather as signs of  summer-weather-to-come, like some fortune-teller that “reads” tea leaves to predict the future.  Could that “colder-than-normal” spring day mean a “cooler-than-usual” summer?  Might last week’s “hotter-than-normal” spring heat flash mean a “hotter-than-Hades” summer?   Who knows… except that I’m thankful our extremist spring spells of weather cannot spell out their summertime forecasts into words.  Why just think about it… if springtime weather could talk, wouldn’t their rhetoric resemble the extremes offered by hard right-wing and far left-wing talking heads after some big political event?  One shouting “HOT” with the other yelling “COLD.”  One shouting “GLOBAL WARMING”, the other yelling “BAH, HUMBUG!”

I suppose flip-flopping weather — winter-like lows mixed with occasional summer-like highs… is what the passage of spring is all about… the way it gracefully and, too oft with a hard jerk, transitions us from one extreme season to the next.  All the while, offering us the gifts of the season, in new life.  Flowers, and flushes of new soft green leaves on shrubs and trees.  New surprise seedlings to share, to pass along to friends and family.  Weeds to pull and toss away.  And in a way I cannot begin to explain, offering a new lease on life to me, too… from hope and joy too dense to weigh.

Who cares if books in my reading stacks gather dust on their dust jackets?  Or that home-cooking is practically nonexistent when there are gardening chores to do?  Springtime, more than any other season, requires easy eats, which too often translates to eating out or thawing something quick from the freezer.   What a wonder of wonders, then, that I recently stumbled upon the best sort of déjà vu, a recipe for beef tacos that reminds me of those once prepared by my former father-in-law.

I’m not sure whether Jack’s taco recipe was ever written, though I watched him prepare tacos (from afar) more than once.  Small mountains of chopped onions. Ground Beef and spices.  Tomato sauce and beer.  All made from a secret recipe he received from a Hispanic neighbor — shared with one small stipulation —  that Jack, on his honor, would never pass the recipe on to others.  As far as I know, Jack never did.  He died keeping his word, even though many of us longed to have that recipe.

Well… who knows why but that one day, during the dregs of last winter, I began thinking of Jack’s beef tacos.  Which led me to wondering whether I could find something close to Jack’s tacos with the help of my favorite Internet search engine.  I sit down in front of my computer.  Carefully spelled out the three-word phrase,  “beer beef tacos.” Tapped the return key.  And up came many, many pages of possibilities to weed through before hitting something close to “paydirt.”  The result shared below may not be an exact reincarnation of Jack’s tacos, even after my few changes.  But it’s close enough to my memory to conjure up the best sort of déjà vu on my tongue.

Why not double the recipe and freeze “just-right” serving portions in small batches… to thaw and heat up for supper on those days when you don’t want to come inside and cook?  In or outside of springtime.  In or out the garden.  Or whatever your own particular lost in time or space or wonderland looks like for you.  Enjoy.  And pass along.

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Drunken Beef Tacos

In a large sauce pan or dutch oven, sauté over medium-low heat for 5-7 minutes, or until translucent:

1/4 cup olive oil
One large onion, chopped
Add 2 minced cloves garlic during final minute of cooking time.

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Add following ingredients and simmer for 5 minutes without covering with a lid:

1 finely-chopped fresh jalapeno  (more or less to taste)
1 15 oz. can of petite chopped tomatoes
1 8 oz. can of tomato sauce
1 tsp salt (or less — add gradually to taste)
1/4 tsp freshly ground pepper
3 oz. beer

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Add remaining ingredients in two stages:

1 1/2 lbs of extra-lean ground beef, broken up with your hands or with a spoon or spatula
4 tsp chili powder
4 tsp ground cumin
1 tsp garlic powder
1 tsp oregano
1 Tbsp brown sugar
1 Tbsp apple cider vinegar

Cook for a 2-3 minutes, continuing to  break apart beef, before adding:

3 oz. more of beer
1/4 cup water

Cover and simmer for 30 minutes, until liquid is almost gone.

Serve in your favorite shells or tortillas topped with chopped lettuce, onion, tomato and cheese.

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