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Newborn Parents

08 Saturday Jan 2011

Posted by Janell in Life at Home

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Everyday Life, Grandchildren, Raising Children

As I look through today’s 100 plus images  — and in particular this one below — it makes me wish that every babe born into the world could be welcomed with the same awe and joy as my new grandchild, Reese Caroline, born shortly after noon today.  Because babes deserve no less than this — and so much more love than we can ever bestow upon them.  But I pray God blesses our widow mites of love as we do our best everyday.  And that God bless these newborns in particular — both parents and child. 

Defining Moments

06 Thursday Jan 2011

Posted by Janell in Life at Home, Writing

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Everyday Life, Grandchildren, Raising Children, True Self

Epiphany, this year, means more than what hits the page of that ever so authoritative Merriam-Webster’s Dictionary.

EPIPHANY: 1 capitalized : January 6 observed as a church festival in commemoration of the coming of the Magi as the first manifestation of Christ to the Gentiles or in the Eastern Church in commemoration of the baptism of Christ;  2: an appearance or manifestation especially of a divine being; 3: a (1): a usually sudden manifestation or perception of the essential nature or meaning of something (2) an intuitive grasp of reality through something (as an event) usually simple and striking (3): an illuminating discovery, a realization or disclosure; b: a revealing scene or moment. 

Though in a very real way, this year’s Epiphany, in my slice of God’s world, is all these and more.  But I’m in no mood to draw contrasts and comparisons; today is a more-to-the-point day, because today is Kara’s due date.

It’s been 40 weeks of pregnancy, a nice biblical number of fulfillment.  And today, whether or not my unborn grandchild knows it, is showtime.  Time to put in an appearance.  To reveal yourself as Connor or Caroline.  And then, over a course of a lifetime, to begin showing us glimpses of your very own person-hood.

First things first.  Blue eyes or brown?  Blond hair or red?  Right-handed or left?  What will that first word be?

Tell me newest ‘grandchild,’ will you like stories and books?  Will you play sports? Or dance?  Or garden or cook? Or sing or play a bassoon?

Will you attend O.U. or O.S.U.?  Or keep family peace by going somewhere different and new?

Will you become a mathematician?  Or scientist? Or a farmer or priest?  Will you build roads?  Or drive spaceships?  Become a doctor or teach?  Or will you make your living doing what the world still waits to dream and define?

So many moments await your definition and I look forward to your every revelation.  Just remember this: there are no wrong answers when it comes to defining your self.  And don’t let the world tell you different.  As your great-grandmother always like to tell me, “Would you  JUMP off a cliff just because your friends did?”

And then there’s this, drawing closer to your Nana’s heart:   No matter who you are and when you may appear, I await you with love.

The Party’s Over

15 Saturday May 2010

Posted by Janell in Life at Home

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Entertaining, Everyday Life, Graduation, Raising Children

Wearing her best party dress, my youngest granddaughter was floating around the house earlier this evening singing “happy birthday” to her two uncles.  Someone commented that Karson didn’t quite “get” that today’s party wasn’t a birthday celebration.

There were presents.  There was cake.  And presents and cake equals a birthday party, doesn’t it?  I don’t think anyone bothered telling Karson otherwise; ‘coz once Karson gets something in her mind, it’s hard to shake it loose.

For the record, we were instead celebrating the college graduation of her two uncles, Bryan and Kyle (who today Karson called Bryan and Bryan), from the University of Oklahoma.  It was  a full day.  Full of pride, joy and just a tinge of sadness.  And of course work, since I did my own cooking.

But as I sit and think in this house that’s grown quiet, I’m thinking Karson wasn’t totally wrong.  It was a happy day.  And in a crazy sort of way, the college degrees that the boys now hold will one day — when this big bad recession is finally over — lead to a new and better, grown-up life.

Too, I do sympathize with Karson’s confusion.  After all, how can it be that both my boys are now college graduates?  That the party is over?  That my formal parenting years are over?

Parenting is one crazy ride.  Just as you get semi-use to it, the job is over.

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