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My Broom & I...Sweeping Away a Winter Snow

Max in Snow Flakes on Max
30 Saturday Jan 2010
Posted in Life at Home
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Frosty Magnolia

My Broom & I...Sweeping Away a Winter Snow

Max in Snow Flakes on Max
25 Friday Dec 2009
Posted in Life at Home, Mesta Park
This year I’ve traded paper and pencil for digital pages and keystrokes. Everyday life is now carefully preserved in the blog that Kyle encouraged me to begin last Christmas. There I rewind and hit pause to really see and listen to everyday life — it keeps my days from slipping into a sea of lost memories. I find peace by anchoring sleep-robbing thoughts to a line of words — to write is to mutter sleepily to my worries, “Now stop your whining.” Deeper thoughts and feelings lie beneath the easily spoken words of, “We’re doing fine.” — which are resurrected through writing, from the depths of unconsciousness.
To pull up a post from last January is to again see two gorgeous standard poodles frolicking in the snow. I smile as Maddie and Max, coated in icy rhinestones, make their own snow ice cream — all from scratch. A story in February makes me laugh at my own Lucy Ricardo moment. Once again, I stand trance-like in front of the oven watching Kyle’s 21st celebratory birthday meal go up in smoke, while nearby, Don remains his unflappable, supporting self. Much smarter than Desi Arnaz, Don knew no amount of “splainin’” would avert the dinner party crisis staring us in the face.
The food that doesn’t burn up in the oven continues to set the stage for everyday life. The blog is becoming a repository for all our favorite recipes. Recorded are recipes for comfort foods such as Oatmeal Cherry Cookies, Potato Soup, Sure Shot Rolls, Meatloaf and Firehouse Chicken Enchiladas. All recipes are prefaced by a story of the recipe’s origin; the first names of friends and family always receive screen credit.
The joys of everyday life are there, like the stories from last March, born from our trip to Las Vegas for Kate and Glen’s wedding. Downhill days, including the five weeks in late April and May when Don worked in China, live here also. While Don kept close watch over contract negotiations for Dow, I kept my own watch over Dad’s sharp decline in health. After four ER visits and two hospital stays, Dad now lives in a nursing home. Every Tuesday afternoon, my brother Jon and I share our lives with our greatly diminished father.
And on and on everyday life goes. The boys will soon graduate. Kara and Joe settle into married life, shaking wanderlust from their systems. My list of “grands’ has doubled with Kate’s remarriage. Yet importantly, we count each and every day a miracle. To wake up to the sounds of Don brewing his morning cup of tea makes me thank God for the life we share together. And with our supporting comedic cast of three dogs, including a new Scottie I call our holy terror, it sometimes feels as if Don and I animate life in a cartoon.
Everyday stories are sacred. It’s ironic that we remember the days where certificates are handed out – like for marriage, the birth of a child, a college graduation or some other milestone – yet forget that the best of real life is sandwiched in between. Don and I are better people for knowing and sharing everyday life with you. Even now, we carry you within us.
It is good to celebrate life while we can. And there is no better way to celebrate than with a good old fashioned face-to-face visit. Facebook may do in a pinch, but when I can’t have the “real deal”, I like the good new fashioned visits which come through my blog — my front porch to the world. Here I welcome old friends and new. I tell my story and my guests share theirs. And sometimes… life slows down enough… so that we can really take in… a “long loving glance at the Real.” “Meet Me in Mesta Park.”
06 Sunday Dec 2009
Posted in Life at Home, Soul Care
Writing proved good therapy yesterday as it lifted my blues and allowed me to pick up the pieces of my day; as soon as the post was published, my husband and I bundled up in our coats and hats. Then we walked west to visit this year’s Mesta Park tour homes.
The homes were well-staged. Everywhere I looked I found some little treasure, some little historical detail that had survived who know’s how many owners to share their hundred year old story. And of course, the homes were dressed in their holiday finest.
But as nice as the homes were, it’s always good to come through my own front door. I walk in through the small vestibule to see it all with fresh eyes; immediately, I spot the greenery that covers my banister. Then my eye falls on the unadorned tree.
Not quite a “Charlie Brown” Christmas tree, our ten-year old artificial tree is small in stature. Four feet from top to bottom. Most of our ornaments, purchased to dress a nine-foot tree, don’t even make it out of the basement anymore. First priority goes to all the decorations made by our children when they were little boys and girls. Any remaining space goes to ornaments that tell stories about our lives — people, places and events.
This ornament made by Kara’s six-year old hand always get a choice spot. After all, the little glitter paper star tells the story behind Christmas itself. Love is the star of the Christmas story. From beginning to end, Christmas is about love.
God loves Kara. God loves me. God loves you. It boggles our mind that this should be so, for Lord knows, there’s nothing that we can do or say to deserve it. And little Kara is so obviously confused about this message of love. A nice teacher probably wrote the story in big and bold red letters, as teachers everywhere are known to do. But little Kara working in blue highlighter can’t quite get her writing hand around the message.
“Kara God loves Kara,” my six-year old child writes. What was Kara trying to say? Was it Kara loves God? Or was she trying to repeat God loves Kara in her own hand, like one who writes a teacher’s words over and over until the lesson sticks. Or is it that God’s love begins and ends with Kara? And me? And you? Whichever it is, just like Kara, we stumble and stutter for the right words and actions to express God’s love, only to have it come out all jumbled. Lost in translation.
No matter what Kara intended to say, the red pen was right in pronouncing that God loves Kara. And had we been in that classroom, we would have made stars that told the story that God loves you and I. This is the ancient love story that was handed down to me and was handed down to whoever my storyteller was… and so on, all the way back to St. John himself, who doesn’t bother with the likes of a nativity story or wise men or shepherds or this bit about there being no room in the inn.
Instead John starts his story all the way back to the beginning of time and says Jesus Christ was there. And then he rattles around a bit, perhaps a little confused and dazed by all of God’s love just like my six-year old Kara was until FINALLY, John writes a verse that even a six year old can memorize:
“For God so loved the world that he gave his own son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.”
And this is John’s Christmas story in a nutshell. John sets his gospel stage with love. And he leaves the rest of the story, and even the story itself, to the likes of us.
If I were six, I might tell the story better.