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Morning Tea Alarm

19 Saturday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in Life at Home

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Aging, Dreams, Everyday Life, Morning Tea

Every day begins thus.

There is rummaging in the kitchen.  The sound of water hums through the pipe and gushes out the faucet; an electric tea kettle is being filled for my husband’s morning tea.  Cabinet doors open and out comes a thermal mug with the red Dow Chemical diamond logo on it.

I no longer remember how we came by these mugs.  Yet, we have three, exactly alike.  Perhaps like other red diamond stuff accumulated over the last thirty-two years, these mugs were a recognition award.  However they came to us, this trinity of  stainless steel  mugs work together to become my husband’s sacred vessel for tea.

As the water begins to boil, he retrieves a tin of green tea; his fondness of  this pale tea grew out of frequent travels to Asia.  He pinches together a few loose leaves and carefully tosses them into the bottom of the mug.  Soon the boiling water will flood the cup and leaves will swell.

The tea will steep as I stir from sleep.

My husband’s early morning tea ritual is my everyday wake-up call.  The sounds of water boiling in the tea kettle climb the stairs to nudge me from sleep.  I slowly stretch my legs to dislodge the stiffness from my knees, a  sure sign of age creeping upon me.

The subtle action dislodges more than intended; my three young and exuberant canine companions bound up on all four legs.  Instantly awake, they stretch and yawn while moving themselves in range for a few morning pets.  I open my eyes to find our standard poodle Max staring up at me with hungry and hopeful eyes.  To encourage me awake, and maybe even to express his undying love, Max quickly plants both feet on the bed and leans in for a sloppy French kiss.  Dulled by sleep and slower reflexes, I dive for the covers but Max is too fast.  That poodle boy shakes this canine mom from her dream world every time.

What had I been dreaming?  It’s hard to remember, though sometimes, if I ask myself the question while still drowsy, I can recall enough to make me smile.  But with three hungry dogs and a full day of no plans ahead, I’ve no time to dawdle now — it’s time to turn my back on my bed and my dreams and wake up to everyday life.  A new day is ready to be born and I must go deliver it.

Thus, my labor begins.

Chicken Fry Steak with Gravy

18 Friday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in In the Kitchen

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Chicken Fry Steak, Everyday Life, In the Kitchen

I prepared these steaks for the first time while still cooking in my Lake Jackson kitchen.  I remember it was this time of the year because the boys were home during the day, enjoying their Christmas break from school.

When supper is ready at our house, the outside world ceases to exist — the television is turned off, video and computer games are paused, my husband’s book is set aside — and so it was that day.  We put individual interests aside to gather around our everyday kitchen table .  And though we didn’t know it at the time, we sat down to what I now know as the best chicken fry I’ve ever tasted —  including all those wonderful versions encountered over the years at various mom and pop restaurants.

The meal has become one of our favorite everyday recipes.  The mother of this recipe originates from one of my Junior League cookbooks; but like any good recipe, adaptions are born out of years of preparing it.   It’s  one of those recipes easy to make but good enough to serve company.  Three years ago I made it for Christmas dinner at my folks.  And two years ago I made it for my mother-in-law’s January 2nd birthday party.  Making it for a crowd requires a little more orchestration, but it’s worth the effort.

Of course, like anything fried with gravy, this meal is not on the top of a heart-healthy list.  But it is Southern comfort food at its absolute best.  And sometimes it’s good to splurge, when we can afford to do so.

From my life to yours.

Chicken Fry Steak

Serves 4        30 minutes, start to finish

4 cube steaks — 6 to 8 ounces each
2 cups flour
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp freshly ground black pepper
1 cup buttermilk
Dash of Tabasco Sauce
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp freshly ground black pepper

Preparation:

On large plate or pie plate, mix flour with 1 tsp salt and 1/2 tsp pepper.  In bowl, mix buttermilk with 1 tsp salt, 1/2 tsp pepper and Tabasco Sauce.  Flour steak  on both sides, dip in buttermilk, and flour steak again.  Set aside on wax paper until ready to fry.  Repeat until all steak is coated.  (Note: if steaks are large, I cut them in half so that they are easy to turn when frying.)

Cooking:

Heat 1/2 cup canola oil in large skillet, over medium to medium-high heat.  When oil is hot, carefully add steak.  Cook approximately 5 minutes on each side until golden brown.  Remove to plate.

Gravy

Carefully remove all but 3 Tbsp on leftover oil from pan.  Leave in flour drippings.  Gradually stir in 5 Tbsp of flour into oil, letting it cook and bubble for a minute.

Add 1 1/2 cups of milk and 3/4 tsp salt and 1/4 tsp pepper.  Cook until thickened, stirring constantly.  (You may wish to add extra milk for thinner gravy.) Pour into bowl for serving.

Saving the Best for Last

17 Thursday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, Life at Home

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Everyday Life, Friends, T.S. Eliot, Travel

Our entire stay has been wonderful.  But yesterday turned out to be the best day of all.

Not because the weather cleared up though we did swap fog for rain and kept the gray skies.

Nor was yesterday better because my meals were more special than others  we’ve enjoyed; good food abounds in Brazosport.

Yesterday was the best simply because I got to visit with friends.  I walked with one, sat with another over tea and visited with the remaining two over lunch.  The conversations were as different as the women involved, and I couldn’t even begin to describe them or their importance to my everyday life.  So I won’t.  Let’s just say that these girlfriends of mine are as real as they come.

That they should rearrange their days to fit in that rare visit from an old friend made me feel special and loved.  And in a nutshell, that is how the best of everyday life should be.

Fair weather comes and goes, the energy from meals is soon consumed but in the space of a few hours, the visits from with these four dear friends will last me for a good long while.

And though I wish I had more time to visit, with old friends and new, time has run out.  It’s time to fly home.

“.. go, go, go said the bird: human kind Cannot bear very much reality.”

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