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Tomato Basil Soup

04 Friday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in In the Kitchen, Life at Home, Prayer, Soul Care

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Everyday God, Everyday Life, In the Kitchen, Soul Care, Tomato Basil Soup

The memories of tasting a new soup can be as wonderful as the soup itself.  And so it is with this particular soup.

I don’t remember the year but I recall it was around Valentines Day when I was first treated to a taste of this simple soup.  My friends Kathy and Litha had conspired to give twelve of their shared girlfriends the best sort of Valentine ever – an invitation to a luncheon, to share and bask in love from their kitchens and in the love of God herself.

These women did all the cooking in advance.  So guests arrived to be welcomed by the hostesses, to tables so prettily set, that we knew ourselves for the special company we were.  We were seated and waited on, one course after another.  The creamy red soup came first, served with dainty cheese wafers, all home-made.  Then the sweet ending was some type of raspberry and chocolate confection that was almost too pretty to eat.  And I don’t recall what came in between, nor do I remember what was said by any one at the table, though I recall that later we circled up in Litha’s living room to share our favorite biblical passage about God’s love.

But I’ll never forget how it felt to have a seat at the table amidst such fine company.  I felt that this is how the world should be…everyday, not just on special occasions. I felt love all around me.  And the love made me feel infinitely precious.

And how rare this feeling is, that I should still be warmed by the memory of that day, seven or eight years later.  That this should be so tells me that we don’t love each other nearly as well as we could, even those in our closest knit circle of friends and family, forgetting for a moment the poor, the hungry, the homeless, the lonely, the grieving that are strangers in our midst that so desperately need a sign of our love and God’s.

Our knowledge of love grows out of a place of belonging, a place where we feel at home, a place where we are loved and accepted no matter what.  And it hits me hard that I could do this more myself.  And should do this more myself.  And though I try to create a place of belonging within that monthly contemplative prayer class I facilitate, I wonder how the experience would differ if I were to  host the group in my home, at least on occasion, instead of meeting at the church.

It’s food for thought.  And in the meantime, I think I’ll carry Kathy’s soup to next Thursday’s pot-luck supper.  Maybe a taste of it will warm their hearts as much as mine… and maybe it will warm your heart too.  From my life to yours.

Tomato Basil Soup

(Original Recipe — 10 cups of Soup) (My adaption of Kathy’s recipe follows)

1 28 oz can and 1 14 oz can crushed tomatoes
4 cups of tomato juice or chicken broth

Simmer together in a large sauce pan over medium heat for 30 minutes.

14 basil leaves

Adding basil, puree in small batches in blender or food process (note:  small batches are important as hot liquid is very explosive when being processed or blended).  Alternatively, use an immersion blender and leave the soup in the sauce pan as I do.

Return to the sauce pan.  Add remaining ingredients; heat through, careful not to boil.

1 cup of heavy cream
1/4 pound butter
salt & pepper to taste.

Alternative Ingredient List – Makes about 7 cups

I reduced the fat content and changed the ingredient list for staples I keep on hand.

Using same recipe process described above…

2 14.5 oz cans of petite diced tomatoes, briefly processed in a blender or food processor
1 8 oz can tomato sauce
1 14 oz can chicken broth
7 – 10 basil leaves
2 Tbsp butter
1/2 cup light cream
1/4 tsp salt
1/4 tsp pepper

Vocation

30 Monday Nov 2009

Posted by Janell in Good Reads, Life at Home, Soul Care

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Everyday God, Everyday Life, Frederick Buechner, Soul Care, Wishful Thinking, Writing

The day comes down to this… me at my writing desk and Maddie laying on the bed behind me.

It feels good to sit after such a busy day. It was one of those days, that after it’s all over, we wonder how we ever fit it all in:  taking  my Addison’s dog in for a check-up, going to the grocery store, doing laundry, baking bread, making lunch and then an entire afternoon at my writing desk immersed in Frederick Buechner’s writing.

Max is doing pretty good, given where we were a few months back.  This past week though, I’ve noticed a little loss in appetite and a few other potential “bumps in the road” that I thought might be tied to the fine-tuning we’ve begun on Max’s hormone replacement therapy.  So today’s visit was all about buying some peace of mind.  With a trip to Surfside Beach in our near future, I want that poodle boy of mine to be fit as a fiddle.

Stuck at the doctors all day, poor Max missed baking day though.  And we missed him.  It’s crazy that we can miss the one that’s not here, even with two dogs still keeping me company.  But Max got a clean bill of health with another order to further adjust his meds.  I’ll be glad when we’re on “maintenance.”

Spending time with Buechner is always holy time.  I’ve decided that Buechner is the patron saint of our Everyday God.  His writing has nurtured my spiritual life in a way that’s beyond words.  Truly.  I remember a former pastor first mentioning his name, sort of in passing.  But I don’t think I’ll ever forget the first time I laid eyes on one of his sentences.  It was literary love at first sight.

It was just a small quote from Buechner, something that I imagine happens a lot with Buechner’s words.  I’m getting ready to do it here.  But I’ll never forget how beautiful the words were and how I felt, that in reading this short sentence, I had just been handed truth in bulk — a lot of meaning for the cost of a few words.

And I pray I have not built this up too much, that you will be disappointed in my short sentence  cum sacred souvenir; but then how could I make too much over this, since this was how I felt reading that first sentence.  I remember putting down the book I was reading, and immediately logging onto Amazon.com to buy my first Buechner book  — Wishful Thinking, A Seeker’s ABC — the very book that contained my sentence.

The quote was the last sentence of Buechner’s definition for “Vocation,” and even taken out of context, it was good.  Very good.  Beyond good.  So what was the sentence that began my journey with Buechner?  Simply this:

“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”

The day comes down to this… me at my writing desk and Maddie laying on the bed behind me.

Waking Up to ‘Yes’

15 Sunday Nov 2009

Posted by Janell in Life at Home, Prayer, Soul Care

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Contemplative Prayer Class, Everyday God, Everyday Life, Icons of Faith, Prayer, Soul Care, St. Luke's UMC OKC, Writing

It’s good to have another installment of Everyday God delivered.  As the old coffee commercial use to boast, it was good to the last drop.

I received.  I created.  Then I gave it all away.  The scariest part is the beginning, when I wait for ideas to come.  Then there’s the hard but satisfying labor of pulling and shaping what comes into an opening meditation (crumbs from my daily bread that set the table for the rest of the evening) and our main course, a contemplative prayer practice.  It’s interesting to note that what I once feared —  the delivery role of facilitator — is no longer scary.

But even (especially?) in a church setting, there is always some fly in the ointment.  The lovely women who attended Thursday evening’s practice session were wary of  this ‘contemplative’ label, fearful that it may have kept others from attending; yet, every one of them enjoyed the contemplative prayer experience.  After a little discussion, they asked if we could remove the ‘contemplative’ word from all future promotions.

“Sure.”  Sometimes saying ‘yes’ is easy.  So next month, I’ll just call it a women’s prayer circle.  Is this truth-in-advertising?  Who knows?  But the right answer seems to eliminate all scary words; “perfect love casts out fear.”

I received a scary but inviting word myself at the conclusion of  Thursday night’s prayer practice.   Linda, the Adult Education Coordinator at St. Luke’s, invited me to be a guest speaker at a Sunday morning Advent class.  The topic —  “Icons of Faith“.

Icon?  Now there’ an scary unusual word for my mixed-Protestant ears.  But I like the topic.  Why?  Maybe it’s all those Greek Orthodox and Catholic ancestors on my father’s side coming home to roost.  Or perhaps it was hearing the thought that laid behind the “Icons of Faith” label:  Each of the lessons (mine would fall second in the series) will allow attendants to receive four personal accounts; stories that tell how a speaker’s faith journey has been influenced by one modern ‘icon’ of faith — a saint, a monk, a priest, a mystic, a whatever.

Each speaker can choose to talk about whomever they wish, with the hope it will open other’s eyes on how the Advent story continues to play out in our own lifetime, in the lives of others whose cup of time we share.  The first speaker will focus on Mother Teresa.  I’m still pondering, but already I’ve a pretty good idea of who I will talk about.

My initial reaction was to play it safe.  I left Thursday night, without offering Linda much hope of an acceptance.  But I woke up Friday morning with ‘yes’.  And before I could change my mind, I dashed off an acceptance note to Linda.

The scariest word of all is ‘yes’.  Especially when it doesn’t become ‘no’ after that eye-opening morning cup of coffee.  And who but God knows what lays in front of that ‘yes…

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