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Praying with Popcorn

20 Thursday May 2010

Posted by Janell in Home Restoration, Life at Home, Prayer

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Everyday Life, Grief, Home Restoration, Retreat

Everyday life goes on.

But sometimes, like yesterday, I barely limp along.  Here’s the countdown:  3 loads of laundry; 2 meals; 1 load of dishes.  And an everlasting research project on which gas logs to purchase for my sister’s soon-to-be-lovely house.

It makes me wonder where I would be without my sister’s house, where I’ve devoted so much of my time since Daddy died.  Her renovation project keeps me going; it provides me an a creative outlet for ‘making all things new.’  Today’s trip will make four for the week.

Much of the work is messy.  Stripping old wallpaper, that has hung around so long that its become part of the wall, is in the running for ‘least favored job’.  It certainly takes the most time…the most patience to subdue.

But worse still, is removing the popcorn texture from the ceiling.   More than half-finished, by now we have the process well-defined.   We wet.  We scrape.  Then instant gratification:  we are rewarded as the rejected popcorn rains down upon us.

It lands everywhere with a wet mournful thud.  Before it’s all said and gone, we are covered with parasitic popcorn.  Small consolation that it is, our hair is protected by shower caps that we sport while undertaking the messy chore.   But no matter how carefully we cover the floor — whether it be with newspaper or old sheets or plastic drop clothes  —  cleaning up the remains still takes as long as the stripping.

If the result weren’t so satisfying, I’m not sure we wouldn’t have stopped with the first room.   But oh… the difference the missing popcorn makes!  The rooms seem larger, the ceiling height more spacious.  Our popcorn removal has been the most dramatic transformation thus far.

My sister and I laugh about how anyone (in their right mind) could have once regarded popcorn as a lovely texture.  Was it just one of those things that didn’t receive much thought, because everyone was doing it?  I can almost hear my mother saying, “If Billy and Julie were to jump off a cliff, would you jump too?” But to give credit where credit is due, popcorn texture lasted much longer than its swinging sixties cousins — does anyone remember shag carpeting and mirror wall and ceiling tiles?

And my favorite job?  Well… that would be painting — tinting the walls whatever lovely shade my sister has selected.  And today, I’m applying my second coat of finish paint to the kitchen.

Today, with a paintbrush in my hand, life will not be limp.  With a paintbrush in my hand, the walls and ceilings will take on new life.  The old will pass away.  With paintbrush in hand, God will be uppermost in my mind.  Those words from Revelations 21 will come to life, as in the presence of God, I will be “making all things new.”

With no need of kneelers or candles, with no need of bowed head or closed eyes, today I will be praying with paint and popcorn.

Calla Lilies Calling

13 Thursday May 2010

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Bereavement, Entertaining, Everyday Life

The calla lilies in the kitchen sink are a gift from my across-the-street neighbor and his steady girlfriend.  They came calling a few days after Daddy died, bearing the gift of this potted plant and their condolences.

Would you think less of me for confessing that I didn’t know people did this anymore?  Where did these two learn this very old-fashioned courtesy of dropping their own everyday life and cares, to call on one who is grieving?

My neighbor is a young bachelor.  Early thirties I suspect. A successful medical supply salesman with some type of formal medical background, I forgot what he once did to earn a living — perhaps he was a nurse or a medical technologist?

I helped him put in his front flower garden last autumn.  Being a salesman, he sized me up good.  He knew from watching me work next door at Cinderella’s, that I’m the do-gooder type, the sort who can’t resist a lawn and garden in distress.

Taking advantage of my weakness — some would say — my neighbor invited me over to a little garden party he was hosting.  And during the digging and planting, I met his then “just-a-friend,” Christy.  By Christmas, Christy was his girlfriend.  And now they’re a couple, calling on a grieving neighbor with Calla Lilies.

Is the calling with Callas just one good turn begetting another?  There was surely no obligation for kindness.  And these days, so many are  going-out-of-their-way with kindness.  They say I’m in their prayers.  But praying  in the silence and praying with words is so very different from praying with actions,  especially when the action calls for cozying up to uncomfortable situations like calling on the grieving.

Slip Simon Away

30 Friday Apr 2010

Posted by Janell in Life at Home, Prayer, Writing

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Everyday Life, Writing

“Slip sliding away, slip sliding away
You know the nearer your destination, the more you slip sliding away.”
— Paul Simon


“We’d like to know a little about you for our files.”

I can’t focus.  Thoughts are disjointed when I need them to come together.

“We’d like to help you learn to help yourself.”

I’ve been up since  5 AM, running on four hours of sleep.   I should be further down the metaphoric road, closing in on my destination.

“Here’s to you Mrs. Robinson, Jesus loves you more than you will know.”

Of course he does.  But listen up.  I’m stalled.  Fighting a bad case of “stuck-itis.”  Unfortunately, those thoughts left simmering on the stove a week ago have gone to mush.

“Look around you, all you see are sympathetic eyes.”

Normally, it’s easier to think than do.  You know us contemplative types:  we like to wonder, dream and ponder life.  Or projects.  Or whatever.

“Coo coo ca-choo, Mrs. Robinson…”

Instead thoughts are circling.  They won’t park.  I write a little.  To no end.  That’s not like me.

“Wo, wo, wo.”

And with my “capstone” project due for class — one I’d like to deliver in ten days or so — I need my old self back, the one who doesn’t struggle in pulling together loose threads of thoughts and sewing them up in a tidy bow.

“Stroll around the grounds until you feel at home.”

I guess I’ll eat bon bons until I pull myself together.  And whine and pray — I’m pretty sure this counts.  Hey Abba — what’s up?

“Heaven holds a place for those who pray.”

I’m giving Simon the slip.  No more Mrs. Robinson.  In need of a major distraction.  Going straight to ABBA.

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