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Life of Pi

21 Sunday Mar 2010

Posted by Janell in Good Reads, Life at Home, Prayer, Soul Care, Writing

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Books, Everyday Life, Soul Care

My friend Connie couldn’t stop talking about this book.

That was seven years ago.  Yet, even now, I remember how Connie’s eyes shined and how my normally articulate book-loving friend stumbled for words when attempting to describe how this story made her feel.  Maybe it was this unfamiliar stumbling that caused Connie to pick up the book a second time.

But it was Connie’s third reading that finally garnered my attention.  Connie’s action, rather than her words, became  an enthusiastic endorsement that led me to plunk down fourteen dollars to possess my own personal copy of Yann Martel’s prize-winning novel, Life of Pi.

Like most of my book purchases, I promptly gave it a home on my bookshelves, to age and gather dust like fine wine.  The intent was to read it someday —  once I had aged and the words had aged, and once I came into an age of more time and less busyness.   My hope was that when someday arrived, once this book and I came to know one another, that my eyes too would shine and my tongue would stumble for lack of words.

Of course, my someday shriveled up and died.   There are always other words to read and enough tasks to fill any day.  Had it not been for the words of another “Connie,” my someday ship would still be off at sea.  It was three weeks ago that, words written by the author of Ripple Effects, stirred me to action:  I left my writing desk, walked down the stairs, across my living room to enter my book cellar of a library.  I scanned, I found, I pulled, I dusted and carried the book upstairs to place on my nightstand, to live beside other books of more serious intentions.

I had several books in front of it — I was finishing up one novel and had required reading for my Monday night class.  So I didn’t begin the story of Pi until a week ago.  Until yesterday, I read at the slow rate of a few pages a night.  But yesterday’s surprise snowfall offered me the perfect someday to finish the story, which I did in the company of three dogs, a soft reading lamp and a few hours of the clock.

“I have a story that will make you believe in God.” So Martel begins his story — or should I say stories — because two stories grow out of book — and we the readers, get to pick which version we wish to carry with us.  Is this a story about God and a young boy, a story about impossible miracles and providence?  Or is the story a simple human tragedy with a good ending?

My husband had to come up the stairs to remind me when it was time for us to eat.  The dogs had to remind me when it was time for them to eat.  I read right through the dog’s dinner bell, which thankfully, my husband answered.  And when I finished this story, I didn’t even bother to describe its impact on me.

Like all good stories, I don’t think we really know what seeds are sown from words freshly read.  It’s only with time and reflection and space and more time that thoughts of the reader and the writer integrate — likes seeds in soil — and either something grows from the planting or it doesn’t.  Perhaps like live seed, it depends upon how much nurture the seeds receive.

Yet there are twinges of thoughts that come as one takes in the words of a great story.  Mine was that the Life of Pi could be shorthand for a life of piety, for surely, the young boy Pi is pious in the best sense of the word — as one who has a heart devoted singularly to God, as one who punctuates his daily life with prayer, who has a heart for God that even allows him to love that murderer Richard Parker.  And is it not appropriate, that Pi’s nickname represents an infinite number, since piety and matters of the heart should be a never-ending story?

I can’t say whether this is a story that will make one believe in God.  But I know it’s a great story, and that it reminds me of other great stories in another great book — stories like the one about Adam, the first zookeeper, and Noah, another zookeeper and his Ark full of animals and Job, who was not a zookeeper, but suffered enough tragedy that led him to question the reasons for life and his feelings about God.

My friend Connie was right seven years ago.  The book begs a second reading.  Someday.

Spring at Heart

19 Friday Mar 2010

Posted by Janell in Life at Home

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Aging, Death, Everyday Life, Parents

The weatherman’s winter snow warning nipped tomorrow’s plan in their daffodil buds.

Instead of Jon and I going to see Dad tomorrow, it was my husband and I this afternoon, a spur of the moment decision to quickly go and get back, to get back before the big bad winter wolf showed up blowing at our door, threatening to huff and puff, and kill all my lovely spring green and flowers.  Will my daffodils freeze tomorrow?

It was a lovely day.  Today, not tomorrow, by all rites, should have been our first day of spring.  We floated on the air on my husband’s new wheels, with blue skies and warm balmy temperatures surrounding us.  I wish I had been able to carry a hint of spring into Daddy’s dark nursing home bedroom.  But this is real life I’m living —  not no Hollywood script.

We found Daddy hibernating, curled up in his recliner sound asleep, with an oxygen tube up his nose.  I looked at him sleeping so soundly — like all parents do when finding their young child asleep.  Then I leaned down to wake him — “Hey Daddy, I’m here.”   Three more gentle nudges finally caused Dad’s eyes to open slowly.  Dad looked slightly startled at first, as he greeted me with that frozen blank stare I’ve come to expect.

I think Dad finally placed me — but Dad never recognized my husband.  It’s been August since my husband has accompanied me — time enough for Daddy to forget I have a husband.  How long will Daddy know me, I wonder.  What if he really didn’t know me today — what if Dad didn’t know that he was my father and that I was his first-born daughter — what if he didn’t recall the life we once shared before he wore Depends that are not dependable, before he wound up in a nursing home, a dire prediction of my mother’s that he once laughed at?

Winter will not loosen its grip on life in this world.  The resurrection of spring that awaits most of us will meet Dad in another space beyond time.  Spring forward, fall back, who cares?  None of that funny timekeeping business bothers Daddy.

It’s winter from here on out.  It’s winter until it’s not.  It’s winter until eternal spring arrives to claim my Daddy’s heart.

Going to the Gym

18 Thursday Mar 2010

Posted by Janell in Life at Home, Writing

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Everyday Life, Iowa Summer Writing Festival, SheWrites.com, Writing

I’m uninspired to write most days.

I know I could find something to write about if my life depended upon my churning out words — but since it doesn’t, I don’t force it.  Yet, even when I’m inspired to write, my pieces run together, indistinguishable, one from the other.

I need a creativity vitamin, something that will help my posts be less generic.  So I’m shaking up life with a little ‘research’ and development.  I’m going to finally ‘do’ something about my writing, to see if I can take it to the next level, whatever that means.

The biggest shake-in-my-boots change will occur in mid-July, when I run away from home for a week to attend the Iowa Summer Writing Festival at the University of Iowa.  I discovered these workshops three years ago, when our youngest son Kyle briefly attended the University of Iowa.  All I could afford to do then was dream since we were ‘college poor’.  To be honest, we’ve been strapped for cash for the last four years, with two boys in college at the same time.

But since I paid the final set of tuition bills last month, I decided to pull out the dream, to see what workshops were being offered this summer.  Each of the workshops is limited to twelve participants — some are weekend workshops and others last five days, Monday through Friday.  I had a hard time narrowing the field down to two but I finally did.  And before I could change my mind, or convince myself that I didn’t need to do this, I picked up the phone and registered.

The smaller creativity shake-up is that I’ve joined a new on-line writer’s group for women, — www.She Writes.com — a venture that is less than a year old.   I joined primarily to take advantage of the on-line courses, though it appears to offer support for publication and other writing adventures.   The class I’ve signed up for is called “Word Yoga.”  I fear the class will give me — a former ‘mild-mannered’ accountant with a smallish vocabulary — a big linguistic workout.  Maybe the class will be like going to a writer’s gym.   Five writing exercises are promised each week for four weeks — and our unpolished ‘best’ must be submitted for workshop each week.

I don’t know what will come of either of these writing endeavors.  But what I do know is that I need more energy and that I’m ready to stretch and flex my writing muscles.  And if either or both of these changes could offer me a boost, I will be glad I stepped out of my comfort zone to enroll in the writer’s gym classes.

Unlike those gym classes in junior high, I am consoled by the fact that I won’t be required to get naked.   Or will I?

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