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Quite Contrary

22 Saturday Aug 2009

Posted by Janell in In the Garden, Soul Care, The Great Outdoors

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Black Spot, English Roses, Everyday Life, Oklahoma Gardening

“Show me your garden and I shall tell you what you are.”    Alfred Austin

My little garden grows not so well right now.  What I found charming just a few days back — a gorgeous English rose playing footsies with a beautiful mound of sage while fighting off the lecherous advances of the robust tomato plant weaving through its canes — was in reality garden disease 101 waiting to crawl off the pages of any gardening textbook. 

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BEFORE

I knew this, of course.  Last year’s gardening classes taught me that plants need some breathing room to thrive.  But it’s easy to have more plants than space on my small Mesta Park lot.  So forsaking the hard gardening facts of life  for the cottage garden look I adore only proves that — unlike Albert Einstein’s take on God — I do play dice with the world.   

But then God sent the rains.  And while ever so welcomed, the rain left behind damp rose leaves and the humid conditions that ignited my little garden laboratory into an outbreak of Diplocarpon rosae fungus.  And this morning’s routine stroll through the garden with water hose in hand revealed a sprinkling of yellow and black-spotted leaves on my Christopher Marlowe rose.      

Black Spot disease can kill roses without treatment.  And while the best prevention is buying disease resistant varieties, like the hardier antique roses and Knock-Out Roses that play monopoly all over my garden, nothing says ‘cottage garden’ quite like a lovely English Rose.  

Normally, I treat the diseased rose with a fungicide spray;  and Bayer Advanced Control Disease is a favorite of gardeners.  But since this product isn’t labeled for use around vegetables, I’m gambling that I can beat the disease without relying on chemo treatments by creating space and removing evidence of disease.  

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AFTER

First, to tame the shrew of a tomato plant, I removed all the heavy fruited branches growing around the rose bush.   Focusing next on the rose bush, I cut away both diseased canes and leaves.  Then, I cleaned all diseased leaves laying around the plant’s base.  And now Chris can breathe again.  And I’m hoping all that fresh air will restore the rose to health.  But if not, I’ll come back and give the rose a shot of Ortho’s Garden Disease Control, a fungicide labeled for tomatoes.  

So that’s the latest on my garden.  Now for the latest on the gardener.  That old coot — English Poet Laureate, Alfred Austin — is right about my life being as overcrowded as my garden.  Busyness has a way of sneeking upon me, and all my fine progress in quieting my life has been put into reverse over the summer.  The class I began, the curriculum I’m writing, my spiritual direction and master gardening commitments but most of all the bi-weekly visits with Daddy. 

So even before I knew what gifts today would bring, I longed for room to breathe.  And I found it by giving myself permission to not make the usual trip to visit Daddy, then choosing to not spend the gift of time on anything that remotely looked like work.  Quite contrary to my usual crowded Saturday, today was about the grace of space.  And now, both Chris and I are breathing a little easier .

Child’s Play

15 Saturday Aug 2009

Posted by Janell in Good Reads, Home Restoration, In the Garden, Life at Home

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Books, Cooking, Everyday Life, Julia Child, My Life in France, Play

This week I’ve felt three friendly nudges inviting me to play.  I ignored the first, wondered at the second and am pausing at the third.  Perhaps it’s time to hit ‘Play’?  If only I could fine the right button to push.

Adult play is not that easy.  I’m not even sure what it looks like.  Is it going to the movies, or is it writing, or is it gardening?  I know for sure it’s not housework.  Or driving.  Or going to the grocery store. 

Before entering first grade, I knew exactly what play was.  It was a life of innocence removed from the ticking of clocks or the nonticking of human hearts.  I lived a life ‘below time’, to use a phrase of Frederick Buechner’s.   Mother would tell me, “Hurry up, it’s time to go.”  And I didn’t.  My first grade teacher would yell at me to “Pay attention”.  And I wouldn’t.  Instead, I lived in my own little world of make believe, a place safe from the likes of hurries and grumpies.  

When I was little, no one ever had to tell me:  “Wake-up. It’s time to get out of bed.”  If I was awake, I was out of bed.   That is, until I learned about school.  

At child’s play, I was immersed in my own little world.  My patch of grass was just fine.  I wasn’t worried about keeping up with my neighbors, even if they were playing a nice competitive game of tennis.  

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At child’s play, I was my own person.  I felt no need to fit in or to fein interest in what was not of interest;  if my cousin Mike was involved in water play, it didn’t mean I had to be.  

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At child’s play, I was not self-conscious.  If I didn’t have the  the right stuff, that didn’t stop me from jumping in feet first.

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So where is play?  Here’s my answer for now.  I believe play happens whenever we forget outselves and our limitations and the rest of the world and its limitations and the time clock and its limitations.  We get lost and aborbed in another world.  Maybe it’s a good book that we don’t want to end.  Or a good moive.  Or for me, a wonderful renovation project, a garden or prayer or writing.  

For Julia Child it was cooking.  Defying the odds and limitations, My Life in France tells the story of how Julia earned her certificate from Le Cordon Bleu and went on to become America’s First Lady of Food.  I was so inspired by Julia’s autobiography that I promptly purchased Mastering the Art of French Cooking.  I opened the cookbook, found it scary and promptly put it on a shelf, where it has gathered dust every since.   

Mastering the Art of French Cooking was not a waste of money however.  I learned that Julia was a master chef because cooking was pure Child’s play for Julia.  I also learned that I do not wish to master French cooking or any other kind of cooking.  I am happy merely to play at cooking. 

Chasing Fireflies

13 Thursday Aug 2009

Posted by Janell in In the Garden, Mesta Park, Soul Care, The Great Outdoors

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Everyday Life, Fireflies, Heritage Hills, Mesta Park, Oklahoma City, Overholser Mansion

Once upon a time, attending a local firefly dance was as easy as taking a few steps into a warm summer’s evening.   fireflyjarAnd in this old neighborhood where I am grateful to live, the grandest dance of all  took place on the grounds of the Overholser Mansion.

The many keepers of Oklahoma City history record that the Overholser’s were known for their grand and gracious entertaining.  Going even further, some say that Henry and the lovely young Anna were the hub of early Oklahoma City’s high society.

Henry was one of the first to purchase property  in the subdivision north of downtown, that is now the heart of the historic preservation district of Heritage Hills.  The story is fondly told of how Henry purchased three residential lots, which bordered Hudson Avenue and Northwest Fifteenth Street, when the land was nothing more than a cornfield.

Henry’s cornfield cum mansion grounds reminds me of another cornfield cum baseball diamond and that mysterious whisper that repeatedly urged…

…”If you build it, he will come.”

As the story was told on the silver screen, the cornfield cut diamond went on to host the ghosts of some famous boys of summers past, most notably “Shoeless” Joe Jackson and his teammates who were caught up in 1919 World Series “Black Sox Scandal.”

overholserThe Overholser Mansion is not host to any scandals of note, though apparently the Mansion is  no stranger to ghosts.  With more than a few reports of paranormal activity floating on the Internet these days, who knows but that maybe Henry heard his own mysterious voice while looking across his own field of dreams; for sooner rather than later, this “Father of Oklahoma City” built his dream mansion…and the invited citizens of Oklahoma City came.

In the book, Oklahoma City, Land Run to Statehood, one local historian notes that,

“Mrs. Overholser gave her first party in 1904 to 400 lucky guests. The Times-Journal society column reported that as guests entered the home, they were greeted by a string quartet playing on the second floor turret landing, hidden by a blanket of palm and fern.”

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It’s been two dry summers since I last attended a firefly dance at the Overholsers, though not for wont of trying.  Many evenings I have put on tennis shoes for a short walk down Hudson Avenue, hopeful of crashing headlong into a firefly ball.

Previous rendezvous have taught me that these shy little social-lights never gathered on the front lawn proper.  Rather the fireflies gravitate to the east side-yard,blog_DSC01705a where they danced above dusk-tinted lawn between an old Model “T” clothes line and the tree-lined sidewalk.

Like a curious child chasing fireflies, I used the net to discover where the fireflies have flown.   The answers I caught at firefly.org knocked me for a loop though;  unless something changes their fate, these charming bugs of summer will soon be ghosts; or in the words of the website, “glowing, glowing, gone.”  Just as sad for this drylocked Oklahoma gal is to know that fireflies prefer life in the warm humid wetlands, the sort of place where tall grass hits water.

Our typical carefully groomed neighborhood lawns, along with other regions of Oklahoma, must have resembled a wetland two years ago, as our rainy month of June left us with non-mowable yards wallowing in standing water.  But it’s interesting that with so many neighborhood wetland yards to choose from, the Overholser place still held a monopoly on firefly dances.

Blog_DSC01713aAnd why not?  There’s simply no better place in the neighborhood to gather than this place that has long been listed on the National Register of Historic Places.  And just as fireflies are anything but a typical guest of an Oklahoma summer, the Overholser place is anything but a typical house museum.  As noted by the Heritage Hills website,

“The Overholser Mansion still contains all of the original furnishings and belongings of the Overholser family, making it one of the rarest house museums in the world. The silverware, dishes, drapes, carpets, furniture – even little Henry Ione Overholser’s doll collection and other toys remain with the home providing a rare snapshot of life at the turn of the 20th Century.

Though I didn’t know it at the time, the Overhoser’s firefly dances of 2007 provided me with “a rare snapshot” of summertime life in Oklahoma.  That little bit of white magic on a former Oklahoma cornfield was something infinitely precious, and though blind, I now see it was a bit of amazing grace served up by a rare summer monsoon followed by a little firefly chaser.

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