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Curious sorts might be wondering whether I’ve done little but stew about Oklahoma’s crazy weather since last dropping a few words onto this blog…given the laments of my last post and the headline of today’s…
If so, I’m tossing out a bevy of lines to say that the weather has been very much on my mind these days… though in a good way.. and that I’m alive and well… and that by this time tomorrow, I”ll be in Seattle… getting ready to board a cruise ship to sail the coast of Alaska. Who knows? Maybe if I’m can lasso a little discipline, I’ll drop a few posts during our travels. Photos, maybe… if words, other than “wish you were here” evade me.
Stating the obvious, in case few have noticed, I’ve become a fair-weather blogger. Or better to say… a foul-weather blogger — one who’s only willing to write when the forecast for rain is 30 percent or more, when it doesn’t make sense to pull out my paint brush… when finish coats need four hours to rainproof.
That my absence from the blog has more to do with busyness on other fronts, that I’ve been occupied outside… gardening up a storm and happily painting the exterior of my house between rainy spells … stirs up a strange stew of emotions within me. At times I simply rejoice in the work and the result, for both past times are rewarding in a way that writing, for now, is not. But I can’t begin to describe the relief I feel to have this burden of projects almost lifted, since I’ve been pondering the work for two years now.
Juggling these two outside chores has meant not only that I’ve dropped writing, but that I’ve tethered myself to hourly forecasts as if everyday life depended upon them. Of course, in a real way, it has. For I’ve no shame in admitting that slipping my smart phone in and out of my pocket every few hours to see whether the winds of change say it’s best for me to pick up my paint brush… or shovel… or simply head to the showers till another day.. is as natural as breathing… has become (at best) a fidgety tic…. or, at worst, a mild sort of addiction.
Working outside has given me new appreciation for those whose occupations take place everyday in the wild blue yonder. For plans are just that…subject to change; their execution hinging upon good weather or bad. Forget the bedtime forecasts. What matters is the weather one wakes up to… since it doesn’t take a Oklahoma weather god to know that the bedtime forecast is ‘old news’ when there’s a morning forecast.. and that that, too, grows obsolete in the face of the noon forecast at mid-day.
Why weather changes with the beat of time. It is mercurial. One year rainy, the next parched with drought. Temperatures rise and fall in sync with changing mercury levels of old-timer outdoor thermometers. And crazy as it may be to admit it, I love our constantly changing Oklahoma weather. Somehow, in ways I don’t wish to describe, it changes me. And not just my current mood… but something deeper that is tied into faith and hope for all things good.
This year, in a Fat Tuesday post, I gave up all my lovely planting plans. But come May, I saw I was too quick to give in. Because in spite of our wetter-than-normal summer– or maybe because of it… (since I always seems to get more done when I feel as if I have limited windows of opportunities of “making hay”) — it’s good to report that the bones of all my ornamental gardens are now installed. And that my two year old front gardens — taking up space in this post — are “toddling” about, needing very little attention.
Good thing, given all the time it’s taking to get my house painted. It feels goods to know that I leave for vacation with the roof trim finished and glowing. And that I’ll come home to less than a month of painting to the finish line… with just vinyl windows and garage doors to go…. Why by the looks of things, vacationing from the blog has been very good for home and garden… and good for my soul, too, since both offer spaciousness and time to reflect on life and God and what and who I love most in the world.
In between all the work, my husband and I are still making plenty of vacation plans … after Alaska, comes Australia and New Zealand….which seems odd, I suppose… to run away from everyday life when it’s time to step back and savor all that’s been accomplished. But such in life, I suppose. And not just for us, it seems, since our very own weather god, Gary England, at the height of a glorious career, will soon be retiring as chief meteorologist for Channel Nine…our local CBS affiliate.
Gary has always been our “go-to” weather guy, in good weather and bad. It will be hard to imagine everyday life without him. I will miss his calm, reassuring voice and comforting presence in my living room. Especially on stormy nights. Gary is the sort of person that most people feel like they know even when they don’t. Many nice words have already been written about him and his long career here in Oklahoma City. And I expect many more will be aired, in one fashion or another, between now and his final forecast later this month… though it has surprised me to realize it’s not just the local press. A LA Times reporter wrote a nice article right after the May 19th and 20th storms worth reading if you’ve the interest and time. Similarly, the New York Times published a piece a few days ago, which by the sounds of it, had been baking since the storms of May 31st… awaiting for Gary to announce his retirement… for Gary had admitted during the interview that he had been encouraged by station management to keep on being a weather god until it stopped being fun…. and well.. sometime after the May storms, he admitted to the reporter, it had stopped being fun.
When things stop being fun, whatever “things” are, those lucky enough to have choice in the matter move on to the the next fun thing. For Gary, it’s an executive job at the television station. For me, for now, it’s being outside painting with latex formulas and flowers instead of painting with words at my computer. And I don’t regret a single minute of being away — for what a glorious time it has been to be out of doors. Why this is the first time, in a long time, that Oklahoma lawns have been lush and green entering August. Or that I can recall tomatoes still setting fruit this late in the season, and evening temperatures hovering below eighty at night. Today’s morning forecast is mid-eighties and sunny — a change from yesterday’s 50 percent chance for showers.
Some times, during all that planting and painting, I’ve wondered whose summer weather we have had the good fortune to experience. I’ve wondered whether, perhaps, the jet stream made a wrong turn and lost its way… giving us some other fine state’s weather in the process. Because if I didn’t know better, I’d think I was living in Oswego, New York rather than Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. However it happened, whatever its source, wherever our fine summer weather has hailed from, I don’t imagine I’ll soon forget it. Nor Gary England, the T.V. weatherman, either.
Could be that the weather gods are just bestowing Gary with a fine parting gift. Because to do the unexpected…. to deliver what could never be forecasted in a million years by the best weatherman of all… well… that would be just like those ‘ole weather gods… wouldn’t you say?
Glad to read your words again, I have been missing them and you. I really enjoyed the article about Gary in the New York Times. We need to do a girls day out/lunch, maybe in between one of your trips. Hope you and Don have a wonderful cruise to Alaska. Love, Judy
Your good travels hopes are working like a charm, Judy.
Seattle is a beautiful city and so far, we’ve enjoyed some fresh seafood and seeing a few fresh sights. Wishing we had a little more time to explore the city before boarding the ship, but we’ll do what we can and somehow content ourselves with our appetizer portion of a visit.
Lunch sounds good. Let’s all of us get together before the new grand child arrives and art show season begins… otherwise it will be Red Cake Day at Sis’s before we’ll gather around a table of good food and good conversations.
Kara and I enjoyed reading your “Day One” vacation post. Your words bring back so many memories …. Disneyworld is still one of my favorite places on earth… and by the sounds of it…. it still offers and runs on that same old time magic I remember. We’re looking forward to reading more about it… if you want to write it.
See you soon. I hope. 🙂
Janell
So happy to open my e-mail and find your blog. I had opened the link Don gave me and I want you to know I read al of the post you made the year your Dad died, well I actually read all the blog. It made me feel as if I was having a wonderful time getting to know an old friend once again. But I was afraid I had not signed up for your blog correctly. Well any way hope to read more. Have a great trip tell Don thanks.
Gosh, Annie… how good it is to have you show up again in my life. So nice of you to take time (a lot of time, I’d guess) to read all my posts. Those I wrote about Daddy were therapeutic when written… and sometimes, when I’m missing him, or Mom, I go back and read them. To remember them and how it was. And they become a source of healing again.
You have always been an encourager… and I’m blessed to have had so many in my life. Thanks for wanting to read more of my life and writing. Someday, with Don now retired (sort of), I hope to head back east. I have a hankering to visit Presidential gardens…. and maybe eat some east coast seafood… and visit a very good old friend by the name of Anne. Wouldn’t that be fun! My eyes are already watering at the thought of seeing you again.
Holding that thought in dreams will have to do for now… with this just born vacation trip ahead of us. It’s time for me to get out of bed and go to the space needle… and take in a bit of beauty of Dale Chihuly’s works of art in glass.. before we board the ship and head north to Alaska.
But before I bail… did I tell you, last time we talked — which ended in my writing a post about you — that Sis still makes your Mother’s pizza recipe? 🙂
Janell
So nice to see your post, and to know that there’s some travel in your future. Actually, it’s in your present – you should be in Seattle now.
The gardens look great – likewise the house. Did you hear me hooting and hollering like a crazed chimpanzee when I read that bit about you tethering yourself to the hourly forecasts? I really did laugh. As the old saying goes, I’ve been there and done that, but now? A quick glance at the radar, and I’m ready to go skry the signs for myself.
What I found most interesting is that four-hour window for your paint to tack off. There must be a real difference between your paint and mine – the product I use will tack off faster than varnish. I do hate to paint, but if I have to, I have a lot more flexibility when it comes to rain.
That is a great NYT article about Gary England. I followed him a good bit during the spring tornadoes up there, and was impressed.
Well, bon voyage. Do give us a post or two. You know, something like, “Nyah, nyah! I’m cruising and you’re not!” 😉
You’re so funny, my friend. Crazed chimpanzee, indeed! Truly,it would be difficult to get that image out of my head if not for all the lovely Seattle scenery surrounding us aboard ship. 🙂
I’m envious about your ability to rely on quick radar glances for working out of doors. Radar — even an expanded view into surrounding states — -just doesn’t work for me. Weather situations pop up out of nowhere. Hourly forecasts, even with fancy modern equipment, aren’t guarantees. But what I find most interesting — to use your words — is reading about your experience and faster paint drying reports, I guess I need to read my can’s fine print again. Was sure it said four hours… “do not paint if rain is expected in four hours”… but maybe I read wrong. Worth checking out… it’s always nice to get tips from a professional.
I will try to post a few times while at sea. Already, we’re having a fine time. It’s good to take a vacation away from painting and planting. And cooking, too.
Wish you were here.
Janell
Your gardens are beautiful and your house too, just as I expected! I hope you are having “Fun, Fun, Fun!!!” 🙂 I know you are……are you on Carnival? Wish we were there too. Missing you just thinking about it. I want to hear all about it when you get back! Much love, dear friend!
Wynona — We are on board, about a hour from muster…
Already, Don & I are missing our cruise buddies. In response to your question, we decided to sail with Celebrity again. They had the itinerary that best fit our schedule this time. But we hope to sail with Carnival again… maybe in early spring… or late winter…. Are you and your’s (AND any one we may know from Lantana, TX) INTERESTED? Never too early to plan. And really, who doesn’t need a little “fun, fun, fun” in their life?
Glad you like the gardens and house. Be glad for you all to come visit and see them “up close and in person.” Any time.
You write that you want to hear all about our trip… and I want to hear all about the progress in wedding plans. Looking forward to catching up. Soon.
Love you back
Janell