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The Second Day

12 Saturday Dec 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, Life at Home, The Great Outdoors

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Everyday Life, Surfside Beach, Texas, Travel

Eyes grow soft when gazing upon any created thing held dear.  Whether it is person or place, it doesn’t much matter.  Eyes grow greedy, drinking without thought of ever feeling sated.  Changes are looked for and found.  But soon the eye accepts the change  so that what once stood out no longer becomes discernible.

It will be just like this when I see those cherished faces of dear friends; and so it already is between me and this area I called home for most of my adult life.

Never mind that it’s a dreary gray day where horizon disappears between sea and sky.  There are no sharp clear lines today; everything my eye falls on becomes a fuzzy smudge.  I know that imaginary artist line is out there somewhere, covered by fog.  Even as my eye follows the white cap surf to the shore line, the sky seems to hover slightly above the churning water.   There’s a closed-in stuffy appearance to my ocean view today; walking out on the cottage deck is like walking into a smoke-filled dive after a night of big business.  Only the smokey fog lingers to hint to what has come before.

And what was it that came before?  It was on the second day that God created an expanse between waters and sky.  And when the separation had come, the first creation account tells that God separated the water under the expanse from the water above it — “And it was so.”  And  God called the expanse sky.

Today the expanse has slipped a bit, for a light mist falls out of the sky on me as I drive to pick up the morning papers and a cup of coffee.  And I feel so loved that my husband would transport his work site for a few days so that I can fill my lungs with salt air and reacquaint myself with the old God in the sea.

Standing before the sea shrinks me to the proper proportion.  I am small  against the  mighty created sea.   And compared to God, I sing with the Psalmist: “What are humans that you are mindful of them?”

It’s time to attend to this mass of sea that blurs into expansive misty sky on this, our second day.

“Go, go, go said the bird…”

19 Thursday Nov 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, In the Garden, Life at Home, Soul Care, The Great Outdoors

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Advent, Oklahoma Gardening, Snowbirds, Surfside Beach, Texas, Travel

There is promise hovering in the cold Oklahoma air that may soon carry us south.

I have been longing for the sight and taste of a place I called home for twenty years.  This morning, after two months of wishing, I picked up the phone-cum-magic wand to make my dream come true.  

My husband and I are not traditional ‘snowbirds, what coastal Texans fondly (and not-so-fondly) call migratories of the human kind who descend south for a winter perch.  Instead, our stay will be the barest of interludes.   We hope to steal away for a few days in Advent, during that lesser known liturgical season preceding Christmas on the church calendar.  Our arrival at Surfside Beach within this prayerful season of holy anticipation and waiting seems entirely appropriate, given that the word Advent  — which derives from the Latin word adventus  —  means “arrival” or “coming.”  

I have come to regard a certain white cottage that graces the eastside ocean front as our home away from home.  Like all beach front property, the house is built on stilt-like pilings, which makes for spacious views.  In the dark morning hours, I watch the fireball of the faraway sun shoot out of the ocean to break fast over darkness.  A little later, I watch the graceful gulls and pelicans skim the ocean surface to break fast in their own way.

I understand their taste for seafood — except for breakfast and a few pilgrimages to The Dairy Bar in nearby Lake Jackson —  it will be a seafood diet for me.  Hopefully, we’ll bring back some lovely Gulf Coast Shrimp as souvenirs.

 

There are other souvenirs to pick up and gather.  Like any familiar place that holds precious memories, a new trip to Surfside allows us to reconnect past dots of everyday life — memories of our children playing in the sand, a few sandy family picnics and even my husband’s proposal of marriage under a starry sky as we searched for Haley’s Comet.  The beach reminds me of walks on the jetty with my friend Terri, as it reminds me of all my friends in and around Lake Jackson.  Some I pray to visit.

Surfside is in the rhythm of our lives in the same way that the sun comes up  and goes down, in the way that the waves sweep in and roll out and in the way that we breathe in and breathe out life itself.  Even now I can taste salt air on my tongue and my mouth waters in anticipation. 

Surfside invites me to encounter life beyond what I can truly know, beyond the wide blue sometimes brown sea yonder.  At Surfside, I descend to the deep, where life below the surface is Real, no longer just an attractive shimmer on the surface.

It’s a good perch to watch and ponder life.  To look back and forward and in and out.  To stay still until I’m filled and it’s time to fly back home.  

“Go, go, go, said the bird:  human kind
Cannot bear very much reality.”   – T.S. Eliot, Burnt Norton

Faux Cassoulet

13 Friday Nov 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, In the Kitchen, Life at Home

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Country French, Everyday Life, Faux Cassoulet, In the Kitchen, Paris France, Travel

There’s a casual coziness about my house and garden that bear witness to  my love of the French Country style.  My furnishings, all the way down to the kitchen sink canisters fits this motif, though I had no grand plan to make it so.  French Country just says home to me.  It always has.

French Lavender

Most of my furnishings are relatively new —  purchased in the last twenty years or so —  with a few antiques mixed in here and there.  My favorite is the antique hutch I stumbled upon at a Paris flea market.  I’d been looking for a piece like this for years but had given up hope of ever finding one.   To run into this elusive piece while on a family vacation made for one unforgettable souvenir and story.

I’ve never regretted my impulse buy, though there was a point when it seemed the purchase wouldn’t happen; the shopkeeper didn’t accept credit cards and to complicate matters, she spoke only a few words of English while we spoke no French.

I learned real fast that our shopkeeper was not going to let a few little obstacles like language and finances get into her way of making a big sale.  Before I knew it, she had rounded up three good friends who kept shops nearby; one had a credit card machine, another knew the ins and outs of exporting and still another spoke excellent English.  Even now, I admire her ingenuity and her persistance in overcoming problems.  And then there’s the memory of her wonderful friends, who went to such trouble on her behalf — they wanted the sale to close as much as she did –and after it was all over, everyone who played a part walked away happy.

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French Country Cousins - the Faux & the True

All this industriousness and making light over troubles goes a long way toward explaining how the French don’t mind spending a couple of days in the kitchen cooking their wonderful French Country dish of Cassoulet; to say it’s a white bean stew cooked with chopped vegetables and meat (traditionally duck and pork) doesn’t do it justice.  I’m lucky that my first taste of cassoulet came over a business dinner in Paris.  I was so taken with the dish that I wanted to make it in my own kitchen as soon as I returned home; however, the desire soon passed with one glance at the recipe.

Our French Madeleine, Lady of Leisure

Today, as I was considering ways to use my leftover Navy Bean Soup, I remembered my Aunt Daisy’s simple recipe for a faux cassoulet.  Pulled together in minutes — with a can of Grandma Brown’s Baked Beans and a little chopped onion, garlic, bacon and brown sugar —  Aunt Daisy never called her dish cassoulet; it was just baked beans.  Being of Canadian French descent, I imagine Aunt Daisy wouldn’t have presumed to confuse hers with the real deal.

Maybe someday I’ll make a real down-and-dirty-two-days-in-the-kitchen Cassoulet.  But for me, it’s faux for now.  From my life to yours.

Faux Cassoulet

Serves 4 as a side dish

2 cups of cooked white beans (Great Northern or Navy Bean)  or 1 can of beans (15 0z)
2 pieces of bacon, fried crisp and crumbled
1/2 cup onion chopped
1 Tbsp of olive oil
1 clove garlic minced
1 to 2 Tbsp of brown sugar (to taste)

Fry bacon.  In a small skillet, saute onion over medium low heat in olive oil until soft and clear — about 5 minutes.  Add garlic and cook another minute.  In a greased casserole dish, mix all ingredients.  Bake  1 hour in a 350 oven.

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