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Giddy Up and Go

19 Thursday Mar 2009

Posted by Janell in Far Away Places, Life at Home

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We’re heading west towards Las Vegas on an old fashioned road trip.  My firstborn, Kate Louise, is going to the chapel to get married on March ‘21’.  She and Glen share a playful sense of humor.  They thought it’d be fun to tie the knot in Vegas.  

 

They’d originally planned do have Elvis do the honors, but now its grown up into a more dignified affair.  Myself, I relished meeting Elvis.  But what adult child seeks the advice of their mother, may I ask?

 

When I was a little girl of seven, I was going to marry Elvis Presley when I grew up.  Elvis was literally the first man of my dreams.  And with childlike faith, I knew he was going to wait for me.  I fell in love over a Coca Cola and some Milk Duds at the Ritz Movie Theatre.  Naturally, I saw all of Elvis’s movies, some more than twice, but my two favorites were “Fun in Acapulco” and “Viva Las Vegas.” 

 

Viva Las Vegas — long live Las Vegas–even without the real Elvis, who’s been dead ever since I grew up.  But there’s still a chance I might glimpse a close facsimile or two.  I hear they’re plentiful in Vegas.  And to think…had Kate and Glen kept with the original plan, their official wedding photo with the fam would have included Elvis in the middle.  How close can one come to making a little girl’s long ago dream come true?  Me and Elvis in a Vegas wedding chapel!

 

It takes a lot of work to giddy up and go on vacation.  And all the getting up before you go stuff takes the same amount of effort whether you’re gone for 2 days or 2 weeks.  I never understood this rigmarole as a child.  There’s the packing and farming out of loved ones – like poodles and tomato seedlings.  There are newspapers to stop and security services to notify:  “Ladies and Gentlemen…. Elvis has left the building”.  Then we had to pack our own stuff, including those last minute purchases, like my wedding day attire I finally bought yesterday.  

 

Then, there’s the everyday stuff of life begging to be done all at once, as if you’re never coming home again. So this week I paid bills, cleaned the house, planted my cool season vegetables, fertilized and trimmed our shrubs, over-seeded my neighbor’s fescue lawn and dusted the upstairs blinds.  Twenty down–none to go. 

 

And then there’s the visual clues you leave behind on the kitchen counter in case you really don’t come back, like the newspaper article that shows where the poodles are being boarded.  I showed some restraint in not pulling our wills out of the file cabinets.  

       

There is an excitement in the air when you travel to faraway places. Our first stop– a town out in western New Mexico–a place called Gallup.  Giddy up.  Let’s go.    

 

Chicken Feed

16 Monday Mar 2009

Posted by Janell in In the Garden, Life at Home

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Tired from an afternoon of weeding, I hoped to sleep like the proverbial rock.  Instead, it was rock and roll.  I tossed and turned all night long while visions of Chickweed and Henbit danced in my head.  Living up to their names, both weeds are chicken feed.       

I didn’t know a crop of chickweed could look like wall-to-wall carpet until yesterday — its small nesting leaves grow low to ground with little white flowers on stems that branch out like spokes on a wagon wheel.  It had no manners, having practically shoved out the purple flowered and furry leaved Henbit – this mint family relative is suppose to be good in a salad, but I’ll pass and let the chickens have mine.   

All this weeding took place at my neighbor’s front yard.   I adopted it last summer after meeting the owner who was home for a quick emergency visit — someone had had the audacity to report their foot high weeds to OKC weed control.  Can you imagine?  Anyway, even if I’d been the tattle tell, we soon became fast friends, especially when she gratefully gave me carte blanche to do as I wished to her untended yard. 

Safely tucked under my wing, this little adopted patch of dirt is now my budding garden laboratory, where I experiment with all sorts of plants I’d never have the courage or patience to try in my own.  Last July, I planted a border garden full of Victoria white and blue salvia I picked up on close-out.  It was not suppose to thrive in this mostly shady spot, nor was it to survive the winter.  But it has defied the odds twice.  And in October, I seeded my first lawn.  Amazing, but it too is thriving, in spite of a dry winter. 

Now, with all the chicken feed weeding done, I’m sowing poppy seeds in their place.  I’m told it’s too late.  But I bought seven packets anyway and have sown them as if I were rolling dice in Las Vegas, like some gambler possessed by a lucky streak.  I rationalize.  No matter what happens, it can’t be as bad as foot high weeds. 

Compliments of Kara, I began my afternoon gardening pursuits with a full belly.  She hosted this month’s movable family feast with brunch at Bellini’s.  We were ten strong, only missing two of my chicks — Kyle was on spring break in New Mexico and Lara, my new adopted girl, reported in sick.   For a tad more than mere chicken feed, we enjoyed eggs cooked in imaginative ways–in frittatas, omelets, poached, over crab cakes, over salmon and in pancakes. 

And because of yesterday afternoon – I now know the answer to that age old question — which came first:  the chicken or the egg?  Because I was told by those in the know— those old gossip spreading Chickweed and Henbit weeds–as we whiled away five long hours under my neighbor’s old Pecan tree.  And, being a gambling gardener, I lay odds they were right.

It was neither chicken nor egg.  It was just chicken feed.

The Prodigal

13 Friday Mar 2009

Posted by Janell in Life at Home, Soul Care

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If Mom were alive, she’d be cooking something special to welcome Jon home.  And Christi would be cleaning the house and doing whatever needed done.    

My brother and I were treated to many such homecoming meals.   Unlike Christi, we’d left home to seek our fortunes.  Though we soon learned life wasn’t a dream — Jon and I lost far more than we ever found.   I would have been in bankruptcy or foreclosure in 1983 were in not for my parents.  And I wasn’t unique in receiving their help.  I saw it over and over.  Like a broken record stuck in a groove, they reached out with open arms to embrace brokenness.  Helping a needy loved one was just what my parents did.  And it was always Mom leading the charge.              

Mom often said we could do whatever we set our minds to do.  She said it so often, I think we all believed her.  I know she did.  She never stopped believing in us.  No matter what wrong we’d committed, we knew we could always go home.  And we knew we’d be welcomed back with love and without judgment.

Mom had a bigger-than-life personality.  When she wasn’t around, people felt her absence.  And when she was, she went out of her way to make others feel special.  “Oh…it’s no big deal,” she’d say.  To her, ‘no big deal’ was just her everyday love expressing itself.  

Cooking was one way Mom loved others sacrificially.  She hated to cook.  But she did it– bereavement meals, birthday meals, every night supper meals, homecoming meals, those favorite desserts that were always around when we were — Jon’s banana pudding; my coconut cream pie.    

I got my prodigal gene from Mom.  I never saw this until a former pastor taught me a broader meaning for the word.  Mom was prodigal because she was ‘recklessly extravagant’ and because she gave ‘lavishly or foolishly.”  In these ways, Mom could out-prodigal my brother or me hands down…and hands out.  She’d give her money away with one hand and her love away with the other.  Both lavishly.  Both without thought of personal cost.   She died with few worldly possessions.  But remnants of Mom’s lavish love giveaways survive.  

Because even now, I am inspired to express love in a way that honors Mom’s memory.   Today its been me in the kitchen making something special for Jon’s homecoming meal.  And tomorrow, it will be me making some banana pudding. 

Mom’s love survives in Christ much more.  Even now, she prepares the house to receive guests — family gathered in Mom’s place who themselves represent bits and pieces of Mom’s love.    

Like a broken record echoing out of eternity, ancient words of a prodigal love song whisper into my ear–I’m reminded we’ve good reason to rejoice and celebrate–  “because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.”

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